Are you the real one who you think you are..?
So, you're thinking that now… honestly, me too!
Hey, I'm Jaya and one of your well-wishers — not because you're here reading this article, but because you genuinely deserve to have one!
More often than not, we find ourselves wondering if we're heading in the right direction — whether it's in our studies, careers, relationships or family responsibilities. We constantly question our capabilities and whether we've made the right decisions when things don't go as planned.
"Finding yourself doesn't end at a particular age, nor is it a destination to reach."
Well, that's perfectly normal — because we're all human, after all.
The Mirror Question
Ever wanted an answer to the question above? Go back to the mirror, look into the reflection of your own eyes, and ask yourself — "Are you the real one who you think you are?"
In that moment, your mind may start to point out your flaws more than the things you've accomplished and the good you've done for your friends, family and society.
Based on my experience, I feel that finding yourself doesn't end at a particular age, nor is it a destination to reach.
It's all about seeing yourself in the things you do, finding purpose, and adding value to the lives of others. You naturally attract people who share your energy.
Expecting nothing in return for the good you do is a remarkable quality everyone should cultivate. Because whenever you act selflessly, you open yourself to learning more and becoming willing to take risks.
The Path Defines You
It's usual to have self doubt, obsession over something and being busy chasing our dreams. But the process and the path you choose to make your progress reaching there will define you and reflect who you actually are!
People like you and me usually come and go, but if we make efforts being a remarkable time stamp in others' calendar, collating these time stamps — that perspective, those kind words — will embrace your presence with them in your absence.
The ones who grow the fastest aren't the ones who work the hardest. They're the ones who are honest with themselves about who they currently are — and who they want to become.
Life is a Rainbow
Life is nothing short of a rainbow, full of colours. We usually see just a thin white light and it's boring, right?
If you wanna see its true side, your good deeds should shine on others' life droplet, where the prism with seven colours would showcase the one you actually are!
On the occasion of Diwali, the festival of lights, I wish you joy, prosperity, and happiness. I never imagined I would pen an article like this and express myself in the GPT era. That said, being human, I truly believe emotions carry trust and hope.
If you've come this far, thank you so much for investing your valuable time in this.
Happy Diwali! 🪔
I hope it made you feel better!